Just want to explore people’s different reasons for being involved and wanting to stay involved in this lifestyle. For me personally there are a lot of different elements that all play a role.

I guess the first and strangest one maybe is that I love the thought of my wife having sex with other men. Like the more slutty in a sense the better. There isn’t a limit on number of guys or frequency of seeing them for sex.

That I guess it’s like I love the fact that I have a desirable woman by most men, I love that other men can experience her for brief periods of time, but at the end of the day she comes home to me.

Another aspect is something I have read that can be summed down to one word; compersion. To take joy from another persons joy. Sex is a wonderful and joyful act! My wife looks good and she definitely enjoys it. So there is a part of me that gets off on that simple fact, knowing she is enjoying herself.

Finishing inside her, this one ties a bit into the first one I talked about. But for me, the ultimate act is finishing inside a woman, because doing so can get her pregnant and feels so much better than pulling out. She hasn’t yet let a guy finish inside her, but she will she said, I’m very excited for that! I hope I get to be there the first time it happens, if I don’t it’s ok too.

Denial - there is a certain something about having to work for it, being denied and having to brush off that denial and try again. The second time she was with a guy, she said he was a bit rough with her and I was denied her pussy for a few days, a part of me hated it, and then a part of me loved it. Sometimes I wear a cage to add to the denial aspect.