Love this reply and agree that the subtle or naturally honest humiliation occurrences are more realistic and usually extremely powerful. My wife struggles to be outright demeaning towards and shy's away from the overtly humiliating acts. However she instinctively does many things that feed my kink for it. I always tell her my perspective on her actions so she knows my desire and acceptance to be humiliated. She's slowly becoming more comfortable with it. Thank you for this insight.

There is an amazing array of extremes surrounding the cuckold lifestyle. Really appreciate hearing your bull viewpoint. My humiliation kink is definitely different in some ways from the situations you describe. I support everyone's right to explore their fantasies in a safe and legal manner. A receptive bull helps make a lot of scenarios possible, thank you for the reply and helping make peoples fantasies a reality.

Agreed, letting her engage solo allows for her to enjoy the whole experience differently than when I'm watching. If I watch I always engage in some way and it changes the dynamic, it's still good but different. I prefer to let her play solo and then hear about it after.

Cuckolding is definitely not a traditional sex life, learning that the humiliation aspect of it is very different with each couple. What a great learning experience, thank you for sharing.

Thank you for sharing your experience, I imagine the humiliation aspect is different for each of us.

For me, the comments about a bulls size, stamina, and or skill, all add to the humiliation kink. It isn't just what she does with me. The mental aspect is huge!

Very interesting dynamic with each couple, thank you for sharing.

Thank you for the reply. The bull perspective is intriguing to me for obvious reasons. I have tried a little of the humiliation you describe with a bull a few years ago. He told her that I must ask him before I fuck her, she was nervous to tell me that but did and made me follow through with him. He became such a good companion of ours that today he's in our circle of lifestyle friends and doesn't do any humiliation things. Friendship is a big thing for us and he's an awesome lover and friend.

I definitely would try more of the type of humiliation you describe, need a bull who enjoys that role to lead it, my wife is too loving and submissive. Though I must say, in our swinger days the occasional taste of cum was unavoidable and I never enjoyed it. I have good friends who are bi-swingers and they love it, it's just not for me. I get that cleanup or eating cum is a forced servitude thing which is part of cuckold humiliation, but we each have hard limits and that is one of mine.

I have done the servitude thing a little when I used to watch her with bulls. I have been told to get things like towels, condoms, lube, drinks, cameras, etc. Told to sit and watch. Used as a physical prop for them to fuck my wife on me. Almost every time I would engage in fucking her which kind of breaks the humiliation wall.

Definitely an area of humiliation I'm interested in, thanks again for the reply.

I think my cuckold humiliation kink is closer to what you describe versus the more aggressive side. I have no desire to be physically abused or verbally abused. However my humiliation desires to some likely sound emotionally abusive. My wife definitely refers to us as a hotwife/stag couple where I prefer to call us a cuckold couple. We meet somewhere in the middle with her slowly leaning more my cuckold way each time. Thank you for the amazing reply.

What can I say about your reply to my post that will do it justice? Not enough I assure you. The way you describe your loving relationship and his fantasy exploration is very honest and raw. It sounds very similar to my own marriage, my wife still struggles to say and do some of my more humiliating asks.

She's told me how she struggles to understand why I would ask her to do such mean things. It has taken decades, yes I said decades, to get to where we are at currently with our sexual fantasies. My wife and I been together 30 years.

Open and honest communication from both of us was the key. She admitted early on that she liked to feel the desire and admiration of others. I told her how she is the basis of all my fantasies, when I would masturbate or just fantasize she was always the center of my thought process. I encouraged her to embrace her feelings, helped her become a confident object of desire. Seeing her grow to love the attention and constantly telling her how it fueled my lust for her, we both grew up in this kinky lifestyle together.

Love to know if you find anything about this cuckold kink desirable?

Love hearing the dynamic with each couple, what currently happens when she returns? Do you enjoy it?

Interesting, the training aspect definitely appeals to my humiliation kink. She's training me to be sexually inadequate while clearly enjoying the humiliation of it all.

Really appreciate your reply, I also do not last very long during intercourse these days. I think it's because I'm overly horny.

Amazing insight into how you are enjoying denial, love hearing more. Denial is a big kink for me. Turnover of bulls, lovers, playmates, or thirds is an unfortunate part of this and any lifestyle. I keep the following mindset every day regardless of how many current connections we may have "ALWAYS BE CLOSING!" Never miss an opportunity!

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Totally different dynamic when you watch correct?

I can totally understand

I agree, this definitely rings true with me.

I looked into it but just can't find the right scenario for us. But maybe in the future, I can see the appeal of it. Curious do you find great pleasure in the denial?

Thank you for the reply, not my kind of twist.

Thank you for letting me know your take on this. Good to hear.