I think my wife is really starting to come around this past year.

We had some pretty hot roleplay this summer, we have openly discussed what I find appealing about it.

Recently we had a pretty good night and she got into it asking how she wanted to see another guy with her, what I wanted to see him do with her and asked if i’d enjoy watching her give him a blowjob. then said she wants to turn me on

We can somewhat casually hint at it not in a sexual manner. We watched ducking perfect video and she liked it thought it was funny. and then yesterday we were talking on how we both don’t want kids and she said “can’t get pregnant anymore… at least not with you”. (vasectomy) I said “yea, so anyone else protection protection” She smiled and laughed.

She told me she is going out next weekend and jokingly refused to let me know with who or where. just she was going out for the night. slightly jokingly teasing it was a secret. it’s actually just her going to her girl friends for a few hours.

there are other things obviously I can’t list them all or remember them all. but i can say I think we both feel comfortable with the concept.

I know status updates aren’t really allowed here. But I just really hope this is going forward and looking for opinions on these being good signs.