Are there a lot of couples in this lifestyle out there who experience “bulls” (mostly ones who are newer to the lifestyle) who think it’s ok to message a Hotwife’s man being disrespectful thinking “oh he’s a cuck. He gets off on this shit” ?? Cuz here’s the thing, some men love being humiliated by strangers, nothing against that. But if you want to be successful, I’d definitely recommend reaching out to people with normal conversations showing some interest in their girl. Not jumping to “I can fuck your gf and leave her for you to eat her clean.”

1: If I eat my gf after she’s been fucked, it’s to show my appreciation for her promiscuous decision and congratulating her for being a slut, which is something I love. It’s about putting her pussy on a pedestal far more than it has to do with humiliation. 2. I’d want for you to have a bigger dick than me and be capable of making her cum and fucking her for hours. This however does not mean I’m small or inadequate. The toughest part for me girl finding a bull is cuz she loves how I fuck. I’m 7 inches, pretty girthy, and can last as long as I want, with great rhythm. If you still do think you can perform better and be a better lover, great, but this is about sex positivity. Reach out like you’re speaking to a normal human being, respectfully. 3. Even if a couple is into the humiliation dynamic, that’s usually a bond that can grow between all parties. They’re (at least most of the time) not looking for humiliation from an online stranger.

Just thought I should put this out there and would love to get some feedback, whether you’re the couple or the bull.