Hi All

We were talking about a new guy that has been persitently messaging her. He is flattering in all the right ways and is recently separated so is now fair game in her book. She works a day a fortnight near him and wants to develop an ongoing affair with him. I expressed some hesitation to which she replied using all of the arguments I made to initiate this lifestyle:

-No one ever looks back and regrets the things they did, only the things they were too afraid to try.

-One day we will be to old for this and will have great memories to reflect back on.

-We can have a threesome first then try solo meetings.

Then when we are having sex she talks about how much she wants him and how glad she is that it makes me hard. That she loves doing it becasue it turns me on.

She has this whole thing nicely dialed in and knows how to get exactly what she wants and still makes me feel like I have a say in it. I know I have had a few moments where I thought it was time to dial it back and she has expertly redirected my feelings back towards her continuing to fuck other men.

Do any of you guys have a wife or gf that knows exactly how to balance this dynamic? How long did it take before she worked out the right formula to keep it going?