My husband and I have been doing this for almost a year now and there is a regular cadence of me seeing a boyfriend and coming home and being with my husband. For the most part, everything is great... our personal life is great, my sex life is amazing... My husband seems to enjoy everything...

A few things have been running around my mind on whether I should push on them or not.

For those who read my Halloween party story before it was deleted, my husband dressed as a woman and went out with me and my boyfriend for the night and was the "date" of another guy... He ended up giving the guy a blowjob (which I still cant believe) and told me how easy it was. About 2 weeks ago we were in Mexico together and he told me he didn't bring enough boxers and wanted to borrow some of my underwear... I joked and laughed but for 2 days he did. Should I encourage this? How far should I go?

Does anyone else have these sort of arrangements?