Do you want an adventure in submission? Do you need discipline and spanking in your life? I am not your normal bull - but if you both are submissive and a bit masochistic I am very interested to talk with you. Read on.

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TLDR version - 52,fit Dom in RTP area of NC seeks cuck couple for ongoing D/s and kink focused relationship. I can easily travel in NC, SC VA DC and MD. Me hosting is preferred and can be arranged on short notice.

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Ideally the couple is both submissive and masochistic - with the cuck in chastity. That is not required, but is the most fun for me. I am open to talk and chat to confirm basic compatibility and learn about each other, but not looking for online. BDSM only works for me when it is consensual, but when it is I can be quite extreme. I am willing to cater to specific kinks as long as thy are not hard limits for me. I enjoy control - giving commands, enforcing discipline, setting rules and protocols, establishing daily routine etc.

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My favorite fetish is regular impact play (LOTS), but all parts of control, objectification, humiliation and suffering turn me on. It might just be her, or it may be both of you! Ultimately though, each D/s relationship is unique and I see it as the Dom's responsibility to help define and explore each sub's journey, mind and body to provide a fulfilling experience for both. All genders, kinks, and sexual preference are ok with me - it may not be my thing, but I do not judge and accept everyone for who they are.

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Although dominance and kink are linked to sexuality, this is not just about sex. It is the control and guiding the sub(s) on her/their journey that interests me. I enjoy using impact play as foreplay, and funishment. But pain also can be for strict discipline or intense bdsm sessions. My favorite are canes but have whips, straps, belts, paddles etc. I find a submissive's acceptance of the pain and submission to it is a huge turn on for us both. I prefer belts and chains to rope - I can do reasonable rope work (shibari), but it is not my thing.

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The specific nature of the arrangement is based on mutual needs and agreement. Extended multi-day sessions on a regular basis work very well. I am no not a Daddy Dom (not my thing) but I want my sub to feel cared for and in a totally safe space. In your reply maybe tell me a bit about what appeals to you and your experience. Don’t be afraid to be open, no judgements here.

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I am white, fit, clean, groomed and well dressed and most women find me handsome. I am financially independent, successful professional and normal guy in everyday life. I tend to be a quiet leader who gains trust and confidence based on expertise and knowledge. Some hobbies include travel (to other cultures), swimming, hiking, fine food and cooking, home repairs and studying advanced physics, cosmology and the biology of cognitive bias.

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Here are a few pics of me: https://imgur.com/a/B8ZWGtH I trust you are willing to share soon after we establish contact. Don't hesitate to reach out for clarification and always willing to make friends. Message or chat is fine for first contact.

• What is most important to me?
• Honesty and authenticity
• Common sense
• Ethical behavior in all aspects of life
• A love of kink and submission (priority)
• A curiosity about the world and desire to explore and understand.

A few things that are important or you may want to know.

• I am DDF, and hope you are too.
• Single, no kids. Can host even on short notice.
• I currently don't drink alcohol
• Non-smokers only - Tobacco smoke for me is a no go. It is a total turn off. (Although I have helped a sub quit smoking)
• I don’t mind if you do or use 420 as long as it is moderate amounts.
• Expect to talk on webcam and/or photo verify to prove we are real and what we say.
• I’m fit and HWP and you should be too; curvy or a few extra pounds is totally ok.
• Lastly for this group: 8" normal girth, cut.

It should not need to be mentioned, but anything illegal, kids, animals or that is going to lead to severe injury is off the table. Should be hard limits for everyone. Generally I am not into: scat, intentional blood, little/age play, ABDL. I have a few other limits, but we can discuss that later.

Live your kink!!