Hi, my wife and I are in our late 30’s, we’ve been together forever, high school sweethearts. For the past while, my wife has been flirting openly with other guys, usually much younger including one of her new summer employees at work. She is slim, preppy, very proper but has a sexy dirty side and lately in our bedroom she has been suggesting I might like to watch her with another guy. It was as if she was reading my mind, though I hate to admit that her flirtations are turning me on. She is bringing it up a lot and she knows how it arouses me, but I’m not sure I’m ready to see her with someone much younger and probably better looking and more endowed than me. I told her I’d go with whatever she wants to do as long as we were together during it. She’s just enrolled on some hook-up sites. We are both nervous in different ways, have other about-to-be cucks have these butterflies and what do you do to keep your balance during this kind of major change in your relationship?