Fiance has been playing into this role for a while but has been saying that she doesn’t want it in real life. She plays the role of a hotwife extremely well in the moment and I’ve speculated she’s cheated on me multiple times. She will pull back during sex and shut down if I get too graphic with details. She also likes taking jabs at my size and teasing me. I think she really enjoys that. She’s also been trying to get me to stop doing it during sex, I think she is tired of hearing about it and “doesn’t want her fiance to want that” it’s just such a mindf when she’s so into it in the moment sometimes and then just pulls back on me sometimes.

What do you think I have here? Someone who is just playing along with what I like or potentially a lifestyle partner?