I don’t enjoy being penetrated, and I don’t engage much with a third person in the act, but something that has become interesting is that I usually “worship” the guy while we are in a threesome. It's a dynamic that my girlfriend also liked, I stop for a while and watch them in the act, and tell her how “attractive” he is, that the view is beautiful, that they make a great couple and things like that. This past week when we had a threesome with a trusted friend, she wanted me to kiss his foot during the act. I thought it was weird but I did it, and she said she loved it. Anyway, trying new things. But I wanted to know if this dynamic is more common or are we odd?