For starters hello and thanks for reading, I'm an aspiring cuckold who's been in a relationship for over a decade. more recently my other half 34F pawg has started to read really smutty romance novels and it's turned into a bdsm/choking/spanking kink for lack of a better terms. Let's jump back 8 year to when we were having sex one night I blurred out I wanted to watch her fuck a hung black man...needles to say it was and absolute meteorite sized dud. It didn't cause a huge fight but her uncomfortableness with it was clearly voiced. now fast Forward to now and her reading these books we've even started to roleplay that I'm not me while we have sex, she's noticing "hot" guys online mentioning other men as daddy types.. it seems she may be a little more willing now could anyone offer advice how to reintroduce the idea?