I was hanging out with a buddy at a bar, I don’t think he was drunk yet as this was literally within 15 minutes of meeting and we were catching up, but we started talking about swinging. I brought it up that it was something I wanted to do with my wife and he proceeded to pull out his phone and show me 2 photos. 1 with his wife being spit roasted and the other just her laying back solo with her legs spread.

I’ll be honest, she’s not my type but seeing her in that context made me think about her in ways I never had and I want to see more. Conversation changed of course and I didn’t want to overstep and ask about it later on in the night as I genuinely enjoy our time together and we don’t get enough of it so we talked about the old days and our kids and work and all the typical bs that we hadn’t talked about yet.

This was months ago and I still want to see more. It’s not necessarily just her that I want to see but her in the context of the swinging/hotwife life. I know that cucks like watching and I would assume that there is also a part of it that’s exciting when another man expresses interest, so am I right in that inference and is there a good way to ask? Or is that just disrespectful?