I’m kind of new to this as a kink, and recently told my girlfriend that I have a stag kink. We’ve done a lot of fantasy play but not crossed that line yet with IRL.

This weekend is her first big weekend away since telling her and it’s for a bachelorette party in Florida. Every session has become some kind of fantasy about what she might get into and it’s hot but now I’m wondering if I may have put an idea in her head to go for it.

We had a hot night where I gave permission in the heat of the moment and now when I ask a bit more serious she’s aloof and says she doesn’t know what will happen. The rule was she’d have to Snapchat me if she did.

I wouldn’t be mad, I’m just wondering what to expect realistically