I’ve talked about my crush many times on here, our flirting, the definitive signs that she likes me as much as I like her and so forth. (We are both attached which is why I believe neither of us has made the move.)

This week, there was an after work event with me and some work colleagues and she was invited. She said she’d be there… but so would my wife! I was honestly curious how that would play out.

At the near last minute, she backed out and said she couldn’t go. Of course, I start wondering why: did she simply have something come up or didn’t she like the idea of me being with my wife? Or something else?

I’m interested to hear other’s thoughts and perspectives. And I know it’s wrong because we’re both attached, but there is something there drawing us together and she was actually the one to start the flirting. I’d appreciate being spared the judgment. Lol.