So here’s a little context before I get into my issue. Me and this girl have been talking for about a month. We texted and FaceTimed everyday, and I would see her once a week. We went out in a date and everything we smoothly. We were holding hands, cuddling ect. Clearly we had feelings for each other. However since spring break, she seemed stand-offish. She wouldn’t text or call me nearly as much as we used too. We would text but she would take hours to respond. This wasn’t as unusual because she would usually take hours to respond but she didn’t engage in the conversation anymore. The next week goes by and I hardly hear from her anymore. Except this time I wouldn’t hear from her in days. At this point I’m thinking she’s clearly not interested anymore, right? Except she would text me days after my text with “hiiii nickkkk” (that’s my name, keep it a secret).

At this point I’m confused and pissed off. I had no idea what was going on and confronted her about it. She told me she was busy and forgets to text people which is understandable, not everyone is on there phone. However, it didn’t make sense in the moment for me. I ended up taking the argument too far by telling her to let me know when she’s busy that way I’m not waiting days for her to text me back. This is the stupidest/selfish shit I’ve ever said to be honest. She thought I was trying to control her and force her to text me but I just wanted to some respect. She never replied after i said i wanted some respect. However, after thinking about it for a week now. I realized I was being selfish and was scared of losing her. This happened last Friday and we haven’t talked since. I texted her on Monday if I could call her as I wanted to apologize for what I said but she hasn’t replied. I’m thinking about seeing her tomorrow at work to apologize but idk if it’s a good idea. I want to apologize and put it behind us but I feel as if she’s already moved on. Should I as well?