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Hey there! I need your help with something I've been thinking about for a while. I met this girl during my studies at a university in Malaysia. She's Arab, just like me, and we currently live in the same country but different cities. When I first met her, she wasn't my focus and I didn't pay much attention to her. However, she started talking to me and we became friends. Over time, I started feeling comfortable around her. I don't mean that I want her to be my girlfriend or anything like that; I just really like how carefree and open-minded she is. Slowly, she started confiding in me - first about cigarettes and later, after a few years, she told me about her drug use. I was the last one among her friends to find out about it. Sometimes, I wonder why she's doing this. the problem started here. she is not acting like friend, she pretend to be my friend so She is using me, just forcing herself to text me so she can get my benefits. She just wants someone to do her jobs. But when she doesnโt want anything, she throws me away like an old toy. Brother, when I used to hack her WhatsApp account because I had this kind of suspicion before, I saw things that made me very disappointed. For me, it's okay if you want to have sex with many people, it's okay if you want to do drugs, it's okay if you drink alcohol. But the thing that's not okay is when you ask and beg people who are lower than me for things, even things I ask her to do, because she just ignores me and makes excuses. But for them is not. I saw everything on her whatsapp chat. she is begging them to hang out with her. but when I ask she said no. The problem is not the excuse; the problem is that she is not communicating with me honestly. She's not telling me, "I'm sorry, I cannot talk to you at this moment; I'm sorry, I'm in a bad mood," or at the very least, she can't tell me the truth. She could tell me, "You're not my type, I cannot be your friend," or at least something like that. If she doesn't want me, why is she still texting me? Obviously, it's because she is using me.
So should I block her?
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