first, some relevant info: we‘re both guys, mid/late 20s and in open long term relationships. we‘ve known each other for a couple of years but only became friends a year ago at a music festival, and don‘t see each other a lot because we live in different cities.

last week we saw each other again at that same festival and at some point, when he was quite drunk, he told me that he‘d very much like to have sex with me. I would have just kissed him or something, hadn‘t there been 10 other people around, one of them being involved into the conversation my crush‘s confession sprouted out of.

anyway, it‘s not too late to take action, plus we made plans to see each other more often so my hopes are high.

I‘m going for short visit at my parents‘ this week and the city my crush lives in is on the way. I have to change trains there on my way home anyway, so I feel like this is the perfect chance to hang out with him. of course I hope for something interesting to happen but I‘m happy if I just get to see him and maybe find out some more about his arrangements with his partner and what rules he has to stick to when it comes to being intimate with others.

now I just need to work up the courage to text him. well, send the message. I already typed it out but I‘m too nervous to hit the send button. any encouragement is much appreciated.

I‘m sure he‘ll say yes and be happy to hang out but damn I‘m way too nervous. aah why am I like this?!