Hey ya’ll,

So I’m trying to understand what’s going on. I’ve developed a crush on a former coworker who is married and is also a lesbian. I’m a straight dude. We were not friends and never hung out while we worked together but we were cordial and friendly towards eachother on the job. It was only after I quit that we began talking to eachother. For context, during one weird day in the office I happened to be standing having a cup of coffee across the floor when I noticed her sit down at her desk, then scroll through a page of internal employee photos and stop when it got to me. I walked over to her desk and said hello, when she very quickly turned her screen off. I found the whole little episode kinda weird? After I quit we chatted here and their via text and then she offered to sell me a really high end microphone for an absurdly low price. I said I’d buy it and we met up to exchange money and mic. We then went to a bar and got a few drinks. I’ve always wondered if the sale was a pretext to hanging out.

Anyway, fast forward to recent history. She’s been sending me unsolicited bathroom selfies. She only ever sends me selfies from her job and rarely if ever, communicates via text with me after 5pm. I compliment her on how she looks and recently was flat out just like “you look really hot”. For what it’s worth I’ve noticed that every day since then I’ve received a pic.

Can anyone tell me what’s going on? Thanks!