I got the Possessed trait on my ironman game, and Satan made me gay, gave me 5/7 deadly sins, and then made me infirm, then incapable. All my vassals hate me, but my son is a competent Grey Eminence, so I really want him to rule; however I am accumulating negative traits, it's just a matter of time before the pope excommunicates me, and I need to die, soon, before my glorious realm is fragmented. However as an incapable I can't fight and I can't plot, and my wife is younger than I am so I can't count on her death to make me depressed. I'm strong so I'll probably have to wait a bit before dying naturally - Incapable is -3 health and Strong is 2, so I must be around 4.00. I'm 56.

Please give me any tips you have on how to deal with this.