So I thought so would share where this all began. My best friend from high school got out of the army and came back home. He had never met my wife. He fell into our friend group which is closed some other guys from HS. My wife really took to him and we all started hanging out. I was working a lot and my wife was doing things with our friends when I was working. I never thought anything of it. I was usually home late and she had grad school class that kept her busy as well. We didn’t t seem to have much time for sex. Okay so there is the background. Now to how I found out. I was hanging out with an another buddy that was also in the friend group. He started laying down some hints and I started picking them up. Didn’t take long to figure it out. So I waited and that night I searched her phone while she was sleeping and sure enough there was plenty of evidence. I was pissed but also aroused. I didn’t say anything right away as I wanted to see what else they would text/ pictures etc. this was the start of what made me a cuck for life.