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Has anyone blocked somebody because of confessions that made you uncomfortable?
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I had a paypig who I had a pretty good rapport with that was subbed to me on OF for a while.

Call me crazy but I just recently blocked him because he confided in me a sexual confession that crossed a line for me. He told me he goes through people's panties/sex toy drawers when they're not around and wears them and uses their sex toys. I thought maybe he's joking or fantasizing/roleplaying and flirting so I asked him, seriously, if he did this without their consent and he answered, seriously, and regrettably yes, and that he didn't tell many people this, and has been doing it for 15 years.

I blocked him. It crossed a line for me. It's one thing to have a fantasy, which I gladly would have played out with him cuz I do enjoy the idea of men wearing women's clothing and using toys..... But it's another thing to act on it without all parties' consent.

Am I overreacting?? Have you had confessions like this happen and you've blocked too? This is the first time I've had this happen with a fan, I've done OF on and off casually for about a year... So although I'm not brand new to OF I'm also not seasoned either... Is this a common thing??? 💀 I'm a bit of a kinkster but consent has always been hand in hand with kink and this really just felt gross to hear somebody do something so predatory

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