Hi everyone! I’m going to make this post very succinct. Here, I have only one question: Do I have a chance of success?

To begin, I’m not very privy with sex-work, nor porn, but my interest has been peaked due to me seeing a gay couple on twitter who are widely popular. For introductions, I’m a young, slender, black woman. I have a very feminine, out-going, alternative style; sometimes I dress in all black, sometimes I wear light pink, white, and light blue. Everywhere I go, I often get complimented on my style; strangers, both male and female, young and old, will positively comment on it. If I’m wearing lighter colors, people will call me a princess, fairy, or Barbie; if I’m wearing dark, some people will say that I belong in media or Hollywood, or that I should be a model because I’m tall and ‘beautiful’ — so I know that people, in some parts, find me moderately attractive.

I’ve posted photos of myself on outfit forums, and I’ve received a few DMs pondering on whether I sell content, or asking if they could purchase nudes from me, but I’ve declined every time. I’m sure there are many, many, many extremely popular alternative-looking people in the online sex-work industry. But, here’s where I am unsure whether there’d be a audience for me;

If I were to make content, I’d want it to be exclusively with me topping a man sexually.

I would like to make semi-anonymous couples content, and have someone who can consistently be my partner in videos. Whether it be anal sex, oral, fingering, rimming—I’d want it to primarily involve me topping my partner anally, either with a realistic dildo, my hands, my mouth, or toys. I would also prefer that I wouldn’t have to take on the role of an over-the-top femme-dom, because, in reality, I am just a woman who likes to have sex with men, the same way a gay top would want to have sex with his bottom. I’d want it to come across as natural, rather than for ‘play.’ I’d also like to avoid ‘full-nude,’ but, again, in a natural way. I wouldn’t want to fuck a man while wearing a full latex suit; I’d prefer to maybe take off my shirt, hitch up my skirts, and go to town—just like a man who, in his vigor, only pulls his pants and underwear down his thighs instead of fully taking them off, and goes to work on his bottom.

So, is there any audience for an alternative, hyperfeminine black woman topping a man without excessive sub/dom dynamics? Rough sex is fine, but I’d never want to be referred to as ‘mistress,’ or ‘mommy,’ or all those other terms. All in all, I think that I’d like the term ‘Daddy’ much more.

Please be kind; if I’ve said anything wrong or that comes across in a bad manner, please be assured that it’s 100% unintentional. Of course, I plan to research vigorously before I attempt to learn the ropes, I’d just like to hear the opinions of people who create content, (couple content creators are especially welcome and appreciated.) If you have any advice for me, please share. Thank you for your time, and again, please be kind, but honest, to me.

(Well. There went my plan for making the post succinct. Sorry about that!)