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Dear male creators: (an open letter)
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There is very much a proper way to approach a fellow creator for working together .

Sending your dick and shirtless selfies out the gate is not it.

Asking to ā€œfuckā€ isnā€™t it.

If youā€™re going to do OF, you need to understand itā€™s not a free ticket to sex.

You need to have been tested for all STIā€™s in the past 14 days and have a link to your results available to send.

Be prepared to pay for travel.

Have content ideas in mind.

Have an audience built up so a creator would get value from working for you. Which means you have an established and verified creator account on OF.

You need to approach professionally with respect

You need references from other models youā€™ve worked with.

If one more man tells me heā€™s an OF creator and wants to work with me after filling our chat with pics of his dingdong Iā€™m gonna snap šŸ˜ƒ (Yes I know this is my fault for having the chat)

Thank you.

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Right. We arenā€™t desperate, but the approach says they are. I actually donā€™t even have sex with anyone on my page, so when people come to me with this ā€œofferā€, they clearly donā€™t even care enough about my content to have subscribed to see if we could make content that is aligned with one another. So you donā€™t support my content or have any idea what Iā€™m even making. You want to fuck and think I must be desperately searching for someone to put their penis in me. šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜…šŸ¤£

Top 0% male creator here (JANDK92). Having a huge following definitely helps with collabs. Learn to network. Do all the hard work for free in the beginning. Guys doing this for sex, just know you get used to it and it eventually just becomes a job like any other career. Realize no one is watching your content for you. As guys, we are essentially props. Your value will come from taking care of all of the back end things, marketing, 2257 compliance, ensuring a good final product video, editing, color grading, etc. Also be nice and respectful to your collab partners. it's really fucking easy to spot amateur male creators out here, coming off as rude or desperate is the easiest way to tell who doesn't view this as a business.

Are they really OF creators or are they just guys thinking if they say that, it will work cuz they see youā€™re an OF creator?

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From the stories Iā€™ve had women share with me, they do all the time. Men fucking suck, just the fact that Andrew Tate is famous blows my mind. I feel so bad that women have to deal with the behavior of men these days.

How do I upvote this a million times??

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No youā€™re fine i re read my comment and it does come across a bit dickish i apologize.

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I appreciate that very much! Means a lot coming for the dopest person in Canada šŸ˜‰ lol But on a real note, Wanna fuck?

Jking! I hope that joke landed šŸ˜…

I hope you have a great rest of your night!

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  1. Why delete your comment?
  2. Itā€™s a public thread, and itā€™s not a very long one
  3. I pointed out that gay guys act just like straight guys, not sure how thatā€™s fighting evils?
  4. Take your own advice? lol ā€œfocus on your bag instead of writing an open letter and youā€™ll be happierā€
  5. I wasnā€™t trying to insult you or argue about anything. Not sure why you took it that way.
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lol thatā€™s quite the assumption, seeing as you would have no experience with gay men trying to talk to you. I get so many 1st message dick pics and ā€œwanna fuckā€ messages from so many gay guys.

Maybe people are just people and some are horny and disrespectful and others are horny and respectful, being gay or straight has nothing to do with it.

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