r/CougarsandCubsMatch

18+ Only.

Minors are prohibited from participating in this subreddit regardless of 'age of consent' in your country.

Known minors will be banned without warning.

Anyone suspected of being a minor may be asked to verify their age with a Mod.

Read the wiki for our complete posting guidelines.

• 25 combined karma is required to post a stand alone dating ad (Awarder/Awardee karma is not counted).

• 10 comment karma is required elsewhere in the sub.

• Accounts must be 7 days old to post a seeking/dating post.

• Post must be seeking an age gap match where the woman is at least 10 years older than the man.

• Women must be over the age of 35 to post here.

Read the full guidelines

• 25 combined karma is required to post a dating ad (award karma doesn't count).

• 10 COMMENT karma is required elsewhere.

• Accounts must be 7 days old

• Required post title format: age [R4R] #Location, (Relationship Status) - Optional Title

• Posts must be seeking an age gap match where the woman is at least 10 yrs older than the man.

• Women seeking men must be at least 35+

• No nudity

• No NSFW content

• Photos may only be shared via an imgur.com or reddit profile link, No other photo hosting services are allowed

• All posts that contain images will be sent to the moderation queue for review (please be patient)

• Check the full photo guidelines for information on how to add a photo to your post. (for mobile users this info is about half way down the guidelines page)

• Stand Alone Ads may only be posted once a week

Posts that:

• Contain no body text

• Contain Only Photos

• Contain less than 100 words

• Do not include what you are looking for, interests, hobbies and information that will give the reader a sense of who you are and what you are seeking.

Posts that:

• objectify,/dehumanise/sexualize older women (this includes the word MILF or any other porn notions you may have)

• mentions your virgin status

• asks women to "show you the ropes", "teach you", "give you experience" or similar

• statements about always being interested in older women (this is a given if you are posting here)

• statements about not being able to connect with younger women (perhaps you've no clue how to connect with older women either, this is not a positive)

This is SFW Sub.

• Posts that contain sexual descriptions will not be approved and in some cases you may receive a ban.

• Do not post language that you would not say to a woman if you approached her in real life.

• If you need to tells us how big your D is find a more appropriate sub. This is not the place.

• Seeking/advertising for sugar relationships is prohibited in the sub. Permanent Bans apply.

• No veiled posts using alternative wording, no requests for financial assistance, asking “to be spoiled” or "taken care of".

• Online Sugar Mamas/Babies are likely to be scammers. Beware!

• Do not send money, pay “verification” fees or share your financial information with anyone. Real women will not ask you for money or offer you money

• The terms Cougar and Sugar Mama are not interchangeable.

No couples looking for a third
No swingers
No hotwives
No shared accounts
(there are many communities that cater to these interests. This is not the place to advertise them)

• In the interests of protecting privacy please:
DO NOT post your email address, phone numbers, social media IDs, KIK/Whatsapp/Snap IDs or any other method of contact.

• Do not post any identifying information in the sub. Leave that to DMs.

• DO NOT Doxx anyone (including yourself)
Doxxing means searching and publishing identifiable details (usually with malicious intent) of any other member of the sub or anyone else on the internet including yourself.

• No posts from accounts that have a link or are used to promote your onlyfans, chatterbate or similar sites.

• If your account contains links to your only fans or similar you will need to use a different account to post a seeking/dating ad.

• No promotion of your sub/blog/etsy/website/discord or similar.

• No offers of exchange for money, goods or services are allowed.

• No links to other subreddits.

• No links to any websites (other than image links from imgur.com or a reddit profile link).

• No videos links

• No advertising whatsoever

• Do not spam the sub with copy & pasted replies/comments

Temporary or permanent bans may apply.

• Be kind & be respectful.

• No deliberately toxic, abusive, harassing, hateful comments will be tolerated. Comment will be removed and offenders may be temporarily or permanent banned.

• NO Sexism/Racism/Homophobia/Transphobia/Body Shaming.

• No extreme views based on Red Pill, MGTOW, Female Dating Strategy, Pick Up Artist or Incel ideologies.

• The Mod Team reserve the right to ban, remove, lock comments or otherwise moderate any content posted on the subreddit as each Mod sees fit.

• This is especially in regard to any post, comment, or communication from a user who The Mod Team feel is not a "good fit" for the subreddit.