I’m starting this online, but I don’t intend to keep it that way forever. If something real comes from this, I’d love to bridge the distance, to meet, to share space, to build something that exists beyond a screen.

There’s something about a woman who knows herself, who’s lived, learned, and carries her stories with quiet confidence. That’s the kind of presence I’ve always been drawn to. Not just because of age, but because depth isn’t something you can fake. Some connections don’t just happen, they unfold. A slow burn of minds meeting, of thoughts intertwining, of laughter and silence carrying equal weight. That’s what I’m looking for. A woman who understands that depth isn’t just about intellect, but about how we see the world, how we move through it, and how we make sense of the chaos.

I’m 26m, from Southeast Asia, currently working in the pharmaceutical industry. Life has made me introspective, someone who observes more than speaks, who values substance over noise, and who appreciates people with a story to tell. I’m not interested in fleeting conversations or surface level exchanges. I want something real, even if it starts with a simple message.

A little about me:

Books? I live in the worlds authors create, thrillers that keep me up at night, romances where longing is almost tangible, stories that make you feel something real. Literature is the closest thing we have to time travel.

Music? I play guitar, mostly rock and metal, but music isn’t just sound to me, it’s emotion, memory, and identity wrapped in melody. Tell me a song that shaped you, and I’ll tell you what it means to me.

Films & Anime? I admire storytelling in all its forms. The kind that lingers. The kind that makes you question, ache, or simply exist in a moment. Got a favorite? Let’s dissect it.

Philosophy & Curiosity? I’m fascinated by the way people think, what drives them, what they believe in, the experiences that molded them. Conversations that start at the surface but dive into the why of things? That’s my kind of dialogue.

Nature? Walking through a quiet forest, feeling the world breathe, that’s when everything makes sense. Some places demand silence, not because there’s nothing to say, but because words aren’t enough.

Cats? My cat, Mist, is a reminder that independence and affection can exist in the same space. If he decides you’re worth his attention, you must be special.

What I’m looking for:

I want to meet a woman who thinks deeply, laughs easily, and carries her history with pride. Someone who isn’t afraid of silence, who enjoys the kind of conversations that stretch into the night, where ideas and emotions intertwine.

If you’re someone who values depth over small talk, who sees life as a collection of moments worth dissecting, let’s talk. Worst case? We exchange thoughts worth remembering. Best case? Who knows, maybe this is the beginning of something rare.