Hey there, it feels a bit weird putting myself out here like this and even more so in a way looking in for a "cougar". Personally I just find an attraction to someone that is week spoken and I can have a connection with that our feelings and the way we communicate flows. With dating previously I've come to see and understand that I find that what I'm looking for in someone more mature and understanding which it seems is someone older than my age group.

Well here's a bit about myself. I'm a creative guy that likes to make things either it be digital art, clay sculptures, 3d artworks, short stories and finding a way to express myself, I like going out to live events, love concerts, finding a nice bar or cafe that has charm and character. I like having deep conversations but also like to joke around and sneak in a few jokes. I don't take myself seriously but all with context of the situation I guess. I play games, into skateboarding, watch the a league football, and footy. I'm passionate about things I enjoy and just like being true to myself.

Maybe I should add what I'm looking for in a person. First is just be true to yourself, I'm shy at first as it's strange getting to know someone from the get go. But maybe that's the fun in this taking that risk. I want to get to know you, understand your nuisances, the way you convey your emotions in your words and eventually the tone of your voice, and maybe after that the way we look at each other and say the words we've messaged. I want to know who you are and hopefully you'll want to know who I am and how we feel about all this.

I don't like to talk about myself but I don't shy from who I am and the person I want to be. I want to discover a genuine connection that builds on trust and understanding with respect of who each other are and what we want in life. I think I'm ready to love and be loved. So it's time for me to be vulnerable and take this chance.

I wonder if it matters to add what I look like or I leave it to if we connect on a deeper level first. Sort of like "love is blind". If you'd made it this far I'd like to thank you for reading this I hope you're doing well. I'm nervous sending this out here and maybe getting no response back from the post but that's the risk one has to take to find someone I guess. Let's hope it works out.