Hello! My name is Hilary and I’m looking for something light and fun that has the potential to move into something more serious.
I am 38 years old, athletic, 5’5 with some tasteful tattoos and still very young in mind and energy, never been married and no kids.
I have tried for over a year to utilize dating apps looking for men closer to my age, and to no avail, it’s been such a rough time. Recently I’ve been on a few dates with men 10-14 years younger, and I finally felt alive! We would talk for hours, laugh, run around downtown for a good mess-around (New Girl reference) and now I’m hooked. I haven’t felt nearly the same amount of shared energy in a very long time, but have realized younger men tend to only want me as a kink, and not so much as a serious option.
So, I have come here in hopes to find what I’m looking for.
I would love to find someone who can ‘keep up’ with me in the sense of adventuring, late night movie binges, bike rides to coffee, random road trips, camping and reading to each other while relaxing in a hammock, etc. I am in the gym 3-4 days a week, I primarily cook at home and would love to find someone who would do that with me.
I wouldn’t say I’m necessarily super feminine, but can rock a dress just as well as vans and vintage jeans with a cropped crewneck. I love music, dancing, nature and Saturday morning cartoons.
I am first and foremost sapiosexual, love an intellectual conversation about any subject matter. Open mindedness and compassion are incredibly important to me as well, as I am not the traditional type. Health is also a value of mine, and prefer a partner who is likeminded. I’m not expecting a six pack, but someone who lives an active lifestyle with a good relationship in regard to food and alcohol.
Thanks!
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