To introduce myself I'm a nerd through and through. Just to give an example of what that really consists of, I spent my entire weekend messing with my computer, installing different linux operating systems trying to find one for me. if you don't know what that means in any way, you'll probably get tired of hearing me talk about the things I enjoy, and that's okay. I don't expect others to really be able to keep up with my interests in things. That's because I'm autistic and my hyperfixations on tech and games are very old and very deep.

Outside of tech, I love to read, and have been learning a bit about writing fantasy and scifi stories in the last month or so. I love to swim, and spending time in the pool is one of my favorite athletic things to do.

I'm 6'1" and about 220lb, blonde hair and blue eyes, I'm a big tall guy so I don't look heavy. Just got a dad bod more than anything. but i'd be willing to slim down with my partners help if they want to see me slim down for both of our sakes.

Now, for what I'm looking for, stability and consistency. I've spent a lot of my life moving around. and it's done quite the number on my ability to really feel comfortable and stable. I just want to find someone who is comfortable with who I am, someone who I can relate to, and someone who will let me love them with all that I have. I'm honestly tired of feeling lonely, and really am just searching for the possibility of finding my person high and low.

as for any traits i'm looking for physically? I'm actually not particularly picky, so long as you aren't extremely obese, I'm willing to speak to you and see if there's chemistry. I do prefer that you send a picture along with your opening message or at least have one on your profile for me to check out. And if i respond i'll be responding with my own for you to make your judgement call so we don't waste each other's time. It's one of the few things that we should all be careful of.

Age wise, i'd say my upper limit is 45-50, but even if you are older than that, feel free to send me a message if you think you'd be able to seriously catch my attention.

EDIT: Just forgot to clarify 2 things 1) I'm totally open to speaking and having a long distance relationship to start. 2) I'm open to relocating myself if things do go the LDR route after a time. I'd want to make sure i'm not just flinging myself into someone's life like that.

If you've made it this far, I just would like to say thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you. :D