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35 [F4M] #Amsterdam, single - Domme looking for a cute, masc. and straight male sub or a lesbian
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volutopia is a female age 35 looking for a male in Amsterdam
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I am not interested in online play and your first messages should all be SFW or they will be reported.

__Introduction__

I am Juliana. I am from Brazil and I recently moved back to Amsterdam, from Portugal. I am looking for a sweet sub, who is always respectul and classy, for a female led relationship. Check out what I am looking for in details, before messaging me. Please do not message me if you have a dominant side.

I am a progressive, a feminist, anti-capitalist, anti-imperialist, nerdy lady who loves being at home watching movies (but who *does not* like Star Wars, Harry Potter or Lord of the Rings haha), videos and series. I love reading, playing videogames, doing jigsaw puzzles, listening to audiobooks/podcasts, stories, rock/metal. I love going to concerts, meeting up with friends to play boardgames (mostly party games), watching stand-up comedy, dancing (retro music and bellydance), being in nature/in the water and swimming. I am interested in sustainability, healthy eating and healthy lifestyle in general.

I am very bossy and I like to tell things like it is. I have a gentle side and I am very romantic and loving fall for people who are sweet after I am mean to them and for people who can make me laugh and who say clever things.

I give a lot of attention and compliments to my sub and lots of hugs and kisses too. Don't expect praise for every single thing you do for me but know that I pay attention to everything and appreciate real efforts and dedication and that I love a sub who pays attention to details. Be mature, be stable and consistent. I am an empowered woman with a lot of experience, so I will not put up with BS :)

I am open for relocation but only within the Schengen Zone for now.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/HT1BDCF.

__What I am looking for__

You have to be single and not dating anyone or anything like it.

I am mostly attracted to White and East Asian people. When it comes to men, I prefer them to be at least around 1,75m. I am not really into chubby guys.

I am looking for someone who makes efforts to be a decent person, as I do. That includes, among other things, respecting the animals' lives, which means you have to be vegan or want to become vegan and this is a requirement. It is just the right thing to do for the animals and for our planet :)

The dream would be to live a life full of love, where we grow some organic veggies and flowers together, have cozy moments watching horror movies and do marathons of series, under the blankets and, are honest at all times with each other and have open communication with one another. I would never lie to my partner and I am looking for someone who also would never lie to me. Lying is betraying and not acceptable on a D/s. I don't believe in words until you show me that your actions back up what you say. I know how common it is for people to lie and lying is against my principles, I want to find someone who takes honesty seriously as I do and it is your job to show me that you are different and better than all the time wasters.

I am a very open person and do not want to deal with immature people, who are afraid of living. Do not message me if you are not ready to meet a Domme in real life: "ready" means willing and capable of meeting in Amsterdam, within a month, maximum. If you try to keep the conversation on Reddit only, and don't want to talk on Whatsapp or Instagram/Facebook, I will think you might have a girlfriend, you are not serious or, worse: that you might be dangerous. Have you seen Bad Surgeon on Netflix?? You have to make sure you give me a good feeling, that I am spending my time getting to know you with a goal be together in real life, and you have to make me feel safe to meet you. If you don't get personal or sound like someone who just wants to live a fantasy in your head, it is likely that I will block you. So if you cannot meet within a month (less than a month, if you live in The Netherlands) then talk to me when you can. I live in an amazing city, that is 100% worth travelling to ;)

I care about physical and mental heatlh. I noticed that many subs seem to be autistic, have ADHD and have mental issues. If any of that is your case, which you should inform me in your first message, you can only message me if you take care of your mind, put on work to be a great partner, which you might need help from a professional to achieve, see a psychiatrist, psycologist, take medication or do whatever therapy that works for you. I am looking for something stable and you have to be stable too, so we can evolve together.

I know how to keep a place clean and organized, and I expect those qualities from you.

An example of an ideal quality time with my sub would be to have him or her gently run their fingers on my back while we listen to some creepy story together. Another sweet thing I like to have with my sub, is that he puts lotion on my skin everyday, as a daily, cute thing. I am a horror fan and have endless reccomendations for people who like horror too haha You have to enjoy creepy stuff too as I listen and/or watch stuff like this everyday and like to do it with a partner when I am in a relationship.

Respect is the basis of an FLR and you *always* have to express yourself with ultimate respect towards me, which means, besides kissing the floor I walk on (figuratevely and literally), being a feminist and a supporter of immigrants' rights and a world with no borders! I am looking for something serious that will, hopefully, last a lifetime. Something that will evolve to living together and adopting cats an perhaps a dog and a rabbit too :)

Eventually, I am looking for something that will evolve to a female led marriage.

__How to contact me__

CLEAR FACE PICTURE OR A VIDEO OF YOU TALKING, ON YOUR FIRST MESSAGE, IS A REQUIREMENT. I don't answer lazy, generic messages or messages from people I don't know what they look like, so if after reading my ad, you decide to send me a message, make sure it is a well written message: Don't overuse slang or "lol" or use too much emojis. Use punctuation! Know the difference between "your and "you're". I love language and I find it sexy when someone is articulate and writes well.

Attraction is essential and I have to know if you are my type physically, before engaging in a conversation with you and, to be quite blunt, nothing substitutes a cute face for me.

If you decide to message me, let me know why you think we could be a match in a relationship and what values and hobbies we share. Also include your height and weight in meters/kg. It is your job to show me that you know that an FLR is what you want. Tell me what you have that I am looking for. Inform me on your fist message if you expect monogamy or not. It is important that, if you are not near me, you inform me that you are able to travel to me regularly and that you can travel soon for a first meeting, and tell me how we could possibly live together one day, if we turn out to be an amazing match!

I will expect relevant questions from a possible candidate and I will expect that we make plans for an immediate future and that we talk about our expectations and logistics of having a life together. If I answer you and state that you are attractive, you have to send me a quick video of you saying something (saying whatever, don't ask me what to say), post it on Imgur or wherever and send me the link, do not ask me for any contact outside of Reddit before I see the video. Make sure to let me see the color of your eyes well on it.

I am looking for something serious so you have to have time to talk daily, send "good morning" and "good night" messages and show legitimate interest in getting to know me as a person.

You can and should find more information about me by checking my profile.

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