I am waiting for the day where I get to be with you... But, let's not rush it, the time will come, we need to get to know each other better first, and here is my introduction to you.
Who are you anyways for me to see you as worthy of my time?
I am a Middle Eastern 5'9" single cub. I'm an ambitious software developer, currently working on developing systems to improve a University's education! An amazingly fun job with extremely good pay! I am living in Saudi Arabia (UTC 3) but not for long. I am planning on moving out due to various reasons in ~2 years, once I finish my job contract that is. I am up to discussion to where to move. As long as it got some nice job opportunities for me to provide a nice living for my partner, then I'm up for it!
You sound like a nice guy, but what about your personality?
I am the quiet soft guy that is always trying to make others' lives better. I love solving problems. What I want for myself is what I give to others, I don't expect to be treated better than I treat others.
I like to provide the maximum possible comfort and "fun" for my partner, I find this to be a purpose in life. I want it to be my purpose in life.
While I am quiet most of the times, when its something I am really interested in, I can talk about it all day! I love having deep long discussions about any topic; Life is a continuous learning experience 😊
While I dislike arguments as much as the next guy, I am not looking to "win" arguments, but to find the root cause of the problem, then solve it together, whether the fault is mine or yours.
I also like to highlight that teaching is one of my passions, and I have a massive respect for teachers, while I am not a teacher officially, I seem to have a natural ability to teach and deliver what might be hard to explain ideas to people.
I am as you might've guessed I am a tech enthusiast, but I also have a wide verity of interests as well! Some I got to practice, some I wish to explore, hopefully with you! They include but not limited to: 3D Art, Space Exploration, Philosophical discussions, DIY and... Your own interests! I am quite experimental and I'd love to explore your interests, who knows? Maybe its something I'll be into and we'll get to do it together!
I am ambitious, I have goals in life, most I may not achieve. Since I am interested in the DIY Scene, I like making my own things, I wish to develop and publish my own video game. I wish to design my own RC Plane, a fairly large one, perhaps fully automated? Long-term, I am thinking of making my own LOCOST car, whether I'd be able to achieve that or not I don't know, but I am certainly interested! Since I was a child, I also had a dream of becoming an Astronaut, I still have that dream but It's pretty unachievable 🥲, that's staying in the dream territory. But At the very least I want to witness a rocket launch! I guess I'm just the dreamer type 😅
Well, what about children?
I am neutral to children, whether you have any or not, Even if your children are older than me, no issues with that!
Okay, I want to have children with my cub, is that fine by you?
That is fine by me! But also fine to be childfree. I believe the decision on having children is on YOU! After all, you're the one who's going to go through the pregnancy, not me... I would never ask my partner to go through that, but if she wants some, I shall provide with as many as you wish, After all I got a lot of stamina spend. 😉
What type of cougar are you looking for?
Well, A cougar is a woman, and the qualities for a good woman are always preferred.
I would prefer someone who's mature, but still playful and fun to talk to! I would like to be the least mature person in the relationship; I want someone who helps me grow to be a more mature guy! I want someone who sees the potential in me, and enables me and encourages me to be the best version of myself in front of them.
I was raised in a conservative environment, I believe in monogamy and lifelong commitment. So someone who's believes in these things and maybe a bit conserative would match with me. I am not in it to have a date or two, but a lifelong partner!
I have no specific age range I want my wife to be in, because the QUALITY of the person matters more than their age. And I find women of all ages are quite attractive 😉 Crazy how women stay attractive for so long!
Okay, What's the catch?
I am looking for a Long-Distance Relationship for ~2 years then turn into a real-life one. LDRs are hard for many, I understand that, but that's my only option until I move. It highly relates to me living in a conservative environment. I hope you understand. Best I can do is voice/video chat until then!
Another thing is, I struggle a bit with romance, but I really want to be romantic! I want someone who encourages me to be romantic towards them, guides me a bit to be again, the best version of my romantic self!
How can I contact you?
Please send me a DM, or a message on reddit, a short introduction of you would be sufficient, we can pick it up from there! I am quite good at conversations even if I do say so myself!
Don't forget to add a 💚 to your introduction, to let me know that you read it fully!
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