I'm looking for a life partner, someone to connect on an emotional level and grow/learn together. Let's go to out there and live life. I want to talk about ideas and discuss what is meaningful to you and me. I do tend to be a bit shy at first and I have a zany sense of humor. I like to read non fiction but also dive into the classics. I also like read manga(one piece&Kingdom). I like to listen to LA theatre work plays & NPR. I like to play video games that make you think or strategize.

When I was younger I felt like an old soul and always found older women more attractive than the women of my generation and below. Unfortunately or maybe fortunately for me, despite being 30, I have been told I physically look like I'm 18-23, so in person I feel like older woman won't take me seriously at first. Some(not all) of the women of my own age and younger simply won't communicate their emotions and tend to play mind games and I'm not a fan of that. I dated an older woman in the past and the way she communicated directly and expressed herself freely was great. I was young but she taught me how to communicate and approach a relationship. I'm glad I got to grow emotionally and experience that. I recently found out about this sub and seeing how I havent really found that when dating or just talking to the women of my generation, I hope maybe I can find something serious here. Also, I feel like the women of my own age and younger are constanlty on social media and put too much weight on how they present themselves to the digital world. I only have reddit so people think im weird that I dont have other social media. I prefer talking in person and just having conversations and appreciating the moment.

Anyways that's my spiel, feel free to chat here or dm if you would like to chat. This is my first time here and not even sure if this will be seen.