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35 [F4M] #Lisbon - Portugal - Single cougar looking for an attractive sub for an FLR, IRL
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volutopia is a female age 35 looking for a male in Lisbon, Portugal
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I have NO interest in online play. I am NOT into sissies.

Now that I, hopefully, eliminated a lot of unwanted ones, we can actually start!

Hi! I am Juliana and I am looking a sweet sub who is always respectul and classy. Check out what I am looking for in details, if you are also searching for a female led relationship (relationship in which the woman in charge, in and outside of the bedroom.)

I don't answer lazy, generic messages or messages from people I don't know what they look like, so if after reading my ad, you decide to send me a message, make sure it is a well written message: Don't overuse slang or "lol" or use too much emojis. Use punctuation! Know the difference between "your and "you're". I love language and I find it sexy when someone is articulate and writes well.

Attraction is essential and I have to know if you are my type physically, before engaging in a conversation with you and, to be quite blunt, nothing substitutes a cute face for me. I block/ignore way more people than I answer and just because I have answered you, it does not mean you will not get blocked down the road if you disappoint me. If you talk to me without showing your face, you are not respecting my limits since the very beginning and I am not interested. If you do not want to show your face, I am not interested in knowing why you do not want to send a picture or video. If you hide your face, you should talk to women who also hide their face, not with me. I am mostly attracted to White and Asian people.

I am very bossy and I like to tell things like it is.

Before messaging me, read my post fully. If you decide to message me, let me know why you think we could be a match in a relationship and what values and hobbies we share. Also include your height and weight in meters/kg. I am from Brazil and and a I am a bit of a nomad. On Wednesday I arrive in Lisbon, from Brazil. I might stay there for a while, I might move back to The Netherlands :)

I am anti-capitalist, anti-colonialism and anti-imperialism and pro-choice. I am vegan (and you have to be one too or want to become one - and know that it is a requirement of mine). Educate yourself. Learn about speciesim, if you are not familiar with the topic. Being an ethical person is very important to me and I am looking for someone who also makes efforts to be a decent person. That includes, among other things, respecting the animals' lives: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZO04lrg0rs&t=26s.

I am a progressive, a feminist, a nerd who loves being at home watching movies (but who *does not* like Star Wars Harry Potter or Lord of the Rings haha), videos, series (I just finished the last season of What we do in the shadows and I loved it), reading, playing videogames, doing jigsaw puzzles, listening to audiobooks/podcasts, stories, rock/metal (some of my the bands I like are: She Wants Revenge, After Forever, HIM, Volbeat, Skindred etc.

I love going to concerts, meeting up with friends to play boardgames, watching stand-up comedy, dancing (retro music and bellydance), playing boardgames and being in nature/in the water and swimming.I am interested in sustainability, healthy eating and healthy lifestyle in general. My favorite food is pamonha, second favorite is Green Thai Curry.

An example of an ideal quality time with my sub would be to have him or her gently run their fingers on my back while we listen to some creepy story together. I am a horror fan and have endless reccomendations for people who like horror too haha You have to enjoy creepy stuff too as I listen and/or watch stuff like this everyday and like to do it with a partner when I am in a relationship. Respect is the basis of an FLR and you *always* have to express yourself with ultimate respect towards me, which means being a feminist and a supporter of immigrants' rights and a world with no borders! I am looking for something serious that will, hopefully, last a lifetime. Something that will evolve to living together and adopting cats an perhaps a dog and rabbit too :)

If you need to have kids, I am not the right person for you.

I am looking for something stable and you have to be stable too, so we can evolve together rather than me being your caregiver. Please know that if you abuse any drugs, including natural ones, or you self medicate because you do not want to work on your mental issues, I cannot be your Domme. I do not want someone who is high often, nor anyone who smokes anything or is addicted to nicotine, Xanax, alcohol or even coffee (I don't drink alcohol or coffee, so, don't invite me for it haha)... maybe you got the idea.

I know how to keep a place clean and organized, and I expect those qualities from you. I am sadistic and love humiliation but I also am very loving, I give a lot of attention and compliments to my sub. Don't expect praise for regular things or every single thing you do for me but know that I pay attention to everything and appreciate real efforts and dedication. I have to say I am not really into chubby guys and prefer men around 1,80 or over, who love curvy, petite women.

It is your job to show me that you know that an FLR is what you want. Tell me what you have that I am looking for. Also make sure to include a clear face picture or, better, a video in which I can see your eyes well (I will ask for a video right in the beginning of the conversation anyway). DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE IF WE HAVE NO VALUES/HOBBIES IN COMMON.

It is important that, if you are not near me, you inform me that you are able to travel to me regularly and that you can travel soon, and tell me how we could possibly live together one day, because, eventually, I am looking for something that will evolve to a female led marriage. So I will expect relevant questions from a possible candidate and I will expect that we make plans for an immediate future and that we talk about our expectations and logistics of having a life together. I prefer if you contact me if you can meet up in real life in the next two months, maximum. Even if that means you refraining yourself from messaging me now and, instead, doing it later on in your life. I do not want to spend too much time only on the internet: I want people who will take me out of the internet :)

If I answer you and state that you are attractive, it is time for you to send me a quick video of you saying something. Make sure to let me see the color of your eyes well on it. If I confirm that you are my type after seeing the video, take the full test on bdsmtest.org and send me the results.

I am open for relocation.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/voloWfA.

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