Hello there, just wanted to give a little light or I guess dark part of the people you may meet on here or elsewhere. I (26M) was talking with this woman (42F) and we had made plans to meet up this weekend to spend our first weekend together. She knew that I recently started a new job and that I was not able to travel all that much. She understood and decided to come visit me where I am located to spend a weekend together. Before this, to clarify, we had been talking for months somewhat consistently.

Now all that said, we had made plans, and everything was set, then about 1.5 weeks ago, we were making our final plans for the weekend. Then the next day, I did not hear from her. I was a bit puzzled but didn't pay too much mind to it as I knew she was a busy woman with her career and everything. I kept messaging every few days to see how she was and if she was good for the weekend, but nothing returned. Now it is Friday when I was supposed to meet up with her and I have no one to meet up with. It sucks and is not a great feeling, but just wanted to get this out there to show that being ghosted can happen on the guy's side as well and not only the women. That being said, it happens far more often for women, I am not denying that but just wanted to express my story on being ghosted. Guess I am back on the market and looking lol :(

Hope all have a great weekend.