As the title says I'm in need of advice for my situation. I(22M) become friends with a classmate(31F) earlier this year. From talking and helping each other nearly everyday for 4 months I developed feelings for her and asked her out. Surprisingly, she liked me too and we started dating.
Like most romance stories everything was going great. We were both happy and enjoying each other. There was a hiccup in the road when she told me she still had feelings for her husband(they're separated when her and I got together and in the process of getting a divorce), after a day of complete awkwardness, we spends some time to talk about it, and we stayed together.
Everything was going well until recently, we went from talking everyday to now nothing, August 3rd she let me know what was going on and things have been very busy for her; 3 of her kids came home from visiting their dad(her 1st husband) then their grandparents over the summer(she has 5 kids in total), she has a full time job along with extra things she needs to do for it, she's still going through a divorce with her ex, she found out her oldest daughter and mother got into an argument, and her step-grandmother passed away.
I let her know that I'd be here for her and she doesn't have to go though all the stress and everything along but I haven't heard back from her since. Recently I sent her a post on IG and saw that she's seen it but after that there's been no communication.
I really care about her but it's been 2 weeks and nothing. I don't want to be insensitive spam her with messages, I just want to know if she's ok. It's hard going from talking everyday to now nothing. I'm honestly unsure what I should do or if there's anything I can do.
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