I noticed a couple of months ago that girls my age are a bit childish or maybe I'm just mature because I started living alone at the age of 16 then I started living and supporting myself in a new country I moved to, since the age of 18. So I wanted to try older women because of this and I also find some older women physically more attractive.
We met on Tinder 3 months ago and we have never had any problems, we would see each other most weeks maybe once or twice. We would go get coffee, go on long walks, eat outside, chat about things and our problems, kiss... Everything felt perfect, we were honest to each other that it wasn't anything serious as she has a kid and just divorced like a year ago. We had sex for the first time after she invited me to her place to watch a movie on a Friday night (2 weeks ago).
A couple of days after that night, I asked her about going for a walk together and she said even though she really enjoyed being around me and found me really hot, attractive, and mature that it's best to not see each other because the age difference makes her feel uneasy even for an FWB situation (summarized).
I am trying to get myself together for the past 2 weeks and questioning if I did anything wrong, I really miss her and it was an awesome experience even just hanging out with her. I don't know a lot of people in this city I moved in and now I feel so lonely. I have this urge to text her. I wish she would text me back and we would start seeing each other again :(. Is there any way I can change her mind?
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