This is why I always hesitate to respond to DMs. I had a cub approach me (you know who you are) and try and romance me. Then, he looked me up and asked if I was Black. Of course, I am unapologetically Black/Native-American. Fiercely proud. This dummy proceeds to tell me he is sorry, but he’s just really not attracted to my type even though he even had a Black girlfriend. Then, he wants to talk about it more with me. Does that make him a racist? Yes, he’s on BlackPeople Twitter, because he thinks my people are “funny”. Um. Ok. If you are trying to get at a mature woman (who, let’s face it, is most likely strong, smart, and fine), don’t act like a little kid. You obviously have a lot of growing up to do and we ain’t here to be your teacher.

Edit: Cubs, sigh, please don’t come at me philosophizing about your thoughts on racism, OK? Goodness! Post whatever you want on here publicly - not accepting DMs.