Dear Cubs, I know it's been a rough year and you feel isolated, lonely, and horny but I am not. I'm sure a lot of my sister cougars will agree with me. I live alone yes, but I'm not lonely. I'm comfortable being alone and often prefer it. I am a mature, independent woman. I raised a family, have a career, outside interests, friends, a home to manage, pets to care for, bills to pay. Many of my cougar sisters still have kids at home, elderly parents to look after, shopping, laundry, cooking, cleaning, an auto to maintain. I am not bored! I'm very busy! PLEASE stop assuming that I need you to chat with. When you contact me do it with a purpose and get to the point. I understand you're lonely and isolated but so are most young guys. Cougars are rarely bored.

Your horny? Well, according to Psychology Today men get horny approximately 388 times a day in their prime. Women in their prime get horny approximately 140 times a day. The older a women gets she learns to control and override the urges. I don't care if you are horny, or what my pics have done to you. I do not want to help you or watch you or get a video of you getting off. I don't want to sex, video chat or trade nude pictures of you. If I do want any of those things I will ask you for them.

I like sex, but I am not a sex crazed nymphomaniac hunting down any young man to quench my thirst. My sex life is none of your business. I am not sharing it with some random stranger. Don't even ask about it.

Do not assume me or any of my sister cougars are on reddit for sex. I originally got on reddit for current events, news and politics. I joined r/cougarsandcubs because I'm a Cougar. When I joined I had been in a yr long relationship with a cub. I was not looking. I am single now and looking, but not desperately seeking any penis. I'm picky and am fine biding my time until I find who I'm seeking.

What am I looking for in a cub? Looks wise? I'll know it when I see it. What I find attractive fluctuates a lot so I can give you a description. If I say you're not my type don't ask me what is. It's just not you. I am college educated and so are all my kids, most with post secondary degrees so, why wouldn't I expect at least the same from a guy I'm seeing? If you live at home with your parents I understand, times are rough right now. But if you don't have a vehicle or work 7 nights a week, don't expect me to be accommodating. Age completely depends on the person. If you're under 23 you better have your shit together. If you're over 32 you better be very young at heart and not loaded with baggage.

Last but not least, cougars are not the solution to your problems! We aren't here to fix you. If you are socially awkward, shy, uncomfortable, etc, you need to overcome that before coming to us. If you have emotional, psychological issues or are depressed we are not therapists. Even if some of us do have degrees in psychology we are not your therapist, and you are not our client. We are for our professional time. We are also not sex therapists. We can't answer your sex questions. Many of us are pretty much the same as your mother. Remember, most of us are someone's mother and we're very busy.