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He Doesn't Want To Introduce Me To His Friends
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I talked about this in the chat but thought I would post it here too for more context.

I 40F met a man 21M on a dating app. We have had 4 dates that all consisted of him spending the night at my place. All about a week apart. He is great and I really enjoy the time I spend with him. We also message constantly throughout the day. On the app we both agreed we are looking for a relationship, not FWB or hookup.

In person we both agreed we are "one at a time" people so not dating other people. Before me he had not been in a relationship or had sex for 3 years. He has never been in a relationship that lasted longer than 3 months.

I just got out of a 7 year relationship this past Spring. I have never been married and never want to get married. I do not have human children and want to remain human childfree. I live with no other humans and want to keep it that way. Even my ex moved in next door instead of us living together.He knows all of this.

He has a very close group of friends that he has been close to since high school. They have all gone to different colleges but 3 of them went to the same school and are his cuuent roommates. He is on a Discord call most evenings with them and they play games and watch TV together.

I talked to him asking if we get serious if he would invite me over to see his place and introduce me to his roommates. He said he wasn't planning on it. When I asked why he said it was because of my age and that his friends wouldn't understand.

He messaged me tonight saying he wished I was there with him. I replied asking him to take a video of his room since I will never see it and he did.

My friends already know about him so no issues on my end. One of my friends who is 46f actually dated a 25yom last year.

This already bothers me a little but I can see it being an issue later down the road. I don't want to emotionally blackmail him but on the other hand I want to express my needs. Have any of you ever been in this situation? Since he hasn't been in a relationship for very long before do you think he would change his mind in the future?

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