Hrllo! Havent posted here in a while. In just over a year I'll be hitting 30 (boo hoo). During my twenties, I've dated women of various personalities, ages, races, and life stages. Dating when you're younger is about experimenting - red flags to recognize in them and yourself, finding out what you like in your partner and what they should like in you, and keeping your partner happy without being overbearing. Accepting that sometimes people change, and must go their own way.

At this point I've realized the age gap is important to me, 15 years being the sweetspot. Less than 10 years doesnt interest me at all, while more than 20 years I'll feel a disconnect.

Suffice to say, there is nothing on this planet that is sexier and attractive to me than a woman in her mid 40's. That is what I think CURRENTLY.. I'm wondering if my preferences will shift as I get older, and if anyone has experienced that?