Maybe I am confused?

I often hop on the cougars/cubs match reddit and see the “hunt” posts where everyone shares who they are and what they’re looking for.

I’m a 26m from the midwest, and usually I fit the description of what the cougars are looking for in their comments.

I shoot them a message, following the rules they set, and never get a response.

And then I see the same people posting in the next hunt post.

I just don’t really get commenting about what you are looking for and wanting dm’s just to not answer to them. Like, if you just aren’t into me or not physically attracted, that’s totally okay! You just gotta let me know.

I really hope this post doesn’t come across as whiney, because that’s not at all how I feel. I just want to know if I’m missing something here?