Okay so I (44/F) participated in the attached groups roll call a week ago and I got great responses. I met someone(26/M) who lives less than a days drive away and it seemed like he checked all of the boxes. The vibe was off the charts with how we talked in text and then voice calls. It seemed like we could just melt away hours in the best conversations and even though it was quick we decided not to invest in others and just meet each other to see how it goes. Great all great. I had checked his reddit history and he made lots of horny comments but 98% of them were all to women who looked like me so Im like yea he will like my body type then. So things of course get sexual and we start talking dirty via text exchanging nudes all the stuff you do when its new and still a little long distance. We have like text/picture sex twice within a few hours. Then he says he thinks im a catfish or a scam and then disappears like radio silence till the next morning. The next morning i call him on cam like i want this cub to see im the real deal im into him so when i video call him im like full naked got my hair fluffed up im feeling myself like ima show this cub Im a real cougar whos very into him. And then he just sits there. Like he doesnt seem to get turned on at all. Just like flatline. For an hour i sit on cam naked and talk to him who is fully dressed but alone in his room and its like cricket sounds. Okay that hurt like i said something about it and again in text he like talks dirty but im like lets try camming again tomorrow. Like we talking of meeting in person in the next two weeks so I wanna know before we meet is this guy into me. But hes like nah im going to the beach... Like I dont want to be jealous person but damn the beach after you just spent two days making me feel like im just not that hot to you. He keeps saying stuff like hes so shy but his comments to women dont seem shy like hes aking to meet offering nudes all that. Even when we talked dirty I brought up anal but hes like uh idk ive never done it but id try it. Then I go back on his reddit and see him begging to creampie someones butt like a month ago. I feel like im getting played. Im new to meeting cubs like this. Any thoughts? Is it me? Am I just having trust issues?