I am new to this community & So i don't know whether this post would be approved or not but i'll still share my situation - What should I do ????
Some time back - I'll be honest. Approximately 1 year back. I matched with a women ( 45F) On a dating site. She is a lecturer as a reputed university. She was very slow at the beginning - but after 3 days she told clearly that she was looking for FWB ( friends with benefits). we planned to meet up. I was living in my home town which is approximately 850 kms away from my work city ( she was from same city). After planning i got into an terrible accident. Lost my cell phone too & Everything n. After buying the bew cellphone i wasn't able to get in touch with her cause all my connections & everything was lost & even logged in the dating site too. All disappeared.
After 1 year today - I don't know somehow - how the phone updated the contacts & ot the backup of contacts. As all contacts list got updated & I saw her & that her number is now with me.
Now - i know - Its pure evil that after 1 year i suddenly appear in front of her. Everyone will say - I ghosted her & everything bro. Which i know wasn't even my attention to any spectrum.
Long story short - I feel i have really fuc**d up badly as i couldn't get in touch with her almost a whole year. But i still wish to connect with her.
Should i approach her & tell her or should I just move on in my life.
P.s - I got her number today itself & I know in this group there are plenty of learnt people who can indeed give me a better clarity about the situation.
All the comments & answers are highly appreciated. 🤗
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