So for a variety of reasons my husband and I have decided to explore consensual non monogamy (one of them being my REALLY high libido right now) and although I've never really explored an interest in younger men, it feels like the right time to do so. I haven't dated or really even flirted in a LONG time so I have no idea how to even go about meeting younger men. I feel very good about how I look at 53 and with all my life experience and education I can converse on just about any subject so I think I'm "ready", lol, it just feels weird and predatory somehow to start seeking out younger men, if that makes sense. Where do I find the ones who are dtf as the kids say, lmao. I live in a smallish city and work at a university, so I know a lot of people and putting my face on dating apps is uncomfortable. Any tips on how to sort of respectfully, genuinely put myself out there to meet like-minded men is appreciated. :)