I (25m) have been seeing a women (38f) for a couple months now. Our age gap has been an issue for her since I revealed my age, not that I was hiding it. When we first went out she thought I was in my mid 30s. We get along great, have tons in common, and really enjoy each other. Every so often she tries to break things off and immediately cites our age gap as an issue when we both know it’s really not. I can usually appease her saying stuff like “we are both adults”, “we both know what we are doing here”, etc. For women out there in this situation: is there something someone said or a thought process that made you more comfortable in this situation? Has it been something you’ve always been okay with? Is it something that doesn’t even cross your mind?