So, I’ve met this guy in a sort of small group setting but we’ve talked platonically via phone calls & WhatsApp - through a WhatsApp group, sometimes I’ve messaged asking him about something he runs & we’ve talked on the phone related to that. I then met him twice in person, group setting. And I feel I’m getting a vibe that he’s into me. (It’s mutual. He’s spoken for ATM cos of this & other reasons I think he’s attracted to me but obvs I’m not acting on it right now. There’s a few things he’s done that make me think he is into me.

BUT

THEN I think ok I know some cubs aren’t bothered by wrinkles which I at just 50 have few of but what about things like jowls or kinda chubby cheeks you know jaw or chin stuff? My neck is fine, no issues there and very few wrinkles.

So while I was feeling myself in the mirror a bit lately, today I thought ew I LOOK 50 today WHY but WHY WOULD he be attracted to ME?

Are there any cubs for who THOSE sorts of things are NOT an issue? I was hoping I would lose my buccal fat naturally by now & I’m annoyed that hasn’t happened. I’d rather have a gaunt face than THIS!

And yes as he knows, I’m smart, funny & we HAVE talked and so on before as I said. But I feel like he’s also physically attracted. I do have nice curves that some guys like. But he acts like he’s attracted to ALL of me including my face. It’s also possible I’m completely misconstruing it and he’s not. 🤷🏻‍♀️ thoughts? (And I don’t want to say here more about why I think he might be just in case 😂)