So here’s the context:

I am 28 in undergrad college. I recently had surgery and have been seeing a physical therapist.

My physical therapist is in her 40s and a divorcee. Her youngest kid just graduated high school and went off to college. She is a retired athlete and absolutely gorgeous.

I’ve been seeing her in pt for a while; we have a pretty good rapport and get kinda flirty. Lots of good vibes. I am an athlete as well and I’m in good shape. I show up wearing my super short gym shorts. Kind of embarrassing but when she’s touching me sometimes I get aroused and my shorts do a terrible job of hiding my erections.

Things I’ve noticed during our interactions:

1. I will catch her smiling at my erections occasionally. She’s never put a towel over it or anything like that.

2. I’ve shown up early sometimes; and could see the way she interacts with other patients (she definitely seems to be a little warmer towards me).

3. She has progressively been dressing sexier, doing her hair/make up. Tighter sundresses; sometimes even somewhat revealing ones that open at her thighs.

4. She’s friends with the front desk lady; and one time brought me to the common area (shirtless) and from the corner of my eye I saw her friend basically drop her jaw and mouth something to her as if to say “omg he’s hot” or something like that. I also came in early once to ask if it was possible to move my appointment up. Desk lady said “awww you came in to ask instead of calling; X is going to love that! I’ll let her know you’re here. her schedule is open so it should be no problem.”

5. We’ve talked about a restaurant in town before and she mentioned that she once went to brunch with a former (female) patient that became a friend. I figure that’s a green light once PT is over.

6. Sometimes she’ll position me in ways where my hand touches her breasts/waist/bottom :0

I know bc she’s my physical therapist I can’t really make a move yet or it would be unprofessional and she could lose her license - getting her into any sort of trouble would be the last thing I want to do.

Today she was wearing a shorter skirt and she positioned herself in a way where I could literally see up her skirt from my line of sight. At end of session I got up with probably one of the biggest erections I’ve ever had for her - honestly felt a little embarrassed and tried to hide it.

My game plan as of right now is to wait until our very last session and surprise her (maybe some like flowers and a thank-you Starbucks gift card). At that point I’d want to ask her out to dinner or something - worst thing that happens is she says no. We have a lot of common interests including, but not limited to, working out and spending time at the lake. Enjoy fine dining etc etc.

Please note that despite my erections happening I am extremely respectful during our visits (I have never said anything inappropriate about it or anything like that). It’s a natural reaction when a guy is really attracted to a lady haha.

Any advice from you ladies out there on how to best approach this would be much appreciated! Thanks in advance!