So there's this woman from my previous job which I quit a little over 2 months ago. We worked on different floors so met only once or twice every day for a quick half minute but it was always pleasant and outright flirty by the end. I added her on facebook but we didn't chat there. Since then, I often think about initiating a meeting, ask her out or sth, my only fear is that she works quite high up in that office and I don't want gossips to spread there, and don't want to get ridiculed by asking a much older (and frankly, out of my league) woman out. I have no idea how gossipy she is and don't even know her at all. How do I get over this? CougarsAndCubs subreddit successfully helped me in the past so maybe you can give me some advice or well-needed encouragement. Thanks in advance:)