First time poster, so please excuse any typos. I (24M) have always been incredibly attracted to women older than me. The majority of dates or meet ups I have had with women have been with older women and I thoroughly enjoy everything a woman older than me has to offer. However, after a recent situation I can't help but feel slightly used. I live alone, am financially stable and for my work I install new kitchens and bathrooms, which is how I began seeing a lady (47). She would stay at my place once every week or two, the sex was absolutely mind blowing and was satisfying for both of us, however anytime I would mention going out on a date, going for a walk with a coffee, or going for a drink, she would constantly raise the issue that she's concerned about how it would be perceived that a woman of her age would be seen with a man much younger than her. I eventually began feeling used because I felt that in her mind I was good and mature enough to cook for her, drive her places, have sex, and let her stay at my place, surely I was good enough to be seen in public with, and its not an issue I've ran into before with any other older women I've been with. Has anyone else experienced this and was it reasonable enough for me to cut things off? Or should I have been more understanding? Advice would be appreciated!
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