Quick history, we flirted at work before and haven't been able to make ANYTHING..and by anything means, dinner date, meetups or just even s3x happen. I got flaked on once by her but apologized to me in person the next day type thing because "her son had to be taken to the emergency room." Fast forward few month later-So I suggested to this older woman, in her mid 50s, to meet up with me for 5 to 15 minutes at a starbucks etc last Sunday

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Cougar: I can't meet up with you on Sunday because I'm taking my kids to a baseball game , but I can meet up with you now?

Me: No, I can't meet up with you now... Lets just message each other next week.

The next day I get a video message of her at the baseball game! (she's never initiated a text before). Is she just trying to show me she isn't lying?

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Question to you ladies is, do you STILL think she is interested in s3x at least? or just stringing me along for attention? Do you think she has another guy on the side? Ty