Hi everyone — I’m rather new to the Reddit experience, so I’m glad to have found this sub. I’ve followed for news and such but I just have never been active. Anyhow .. I’m 44, single, female .. and I ended up matching on an app with a young man who is 29. We exchanged messages and then moved to a different communication platform where the messaging was random at best. I didn’t really think anything of it.. probably just another cub passing in the virtual wind. But the other night we started messaging and I asked if he wanted to video chat .. and he agreed .. and we ended up talking for 6 hours .. it seems pretty significant to me.
I admit that I thrive on good communication and enjoy getting to know people, but the video chat for that length of time is rather unique to me, I think. I was thinking we would be able to communicate more after we established we enjoyed talking to each other .. but it’s gone back to very random communication. At this point it’s virtual and we haven’t been able to meet yet, but do I just give him space to figure out if he wants to message me? For example, I sent a message yesterday and it got left on read with no response ..
pondering and looking for that young guy perspective on this situation. Thanks in advance
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